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Hello! I'm Kara, a mid 30's mum of one, teacher by day and mummy by night. I would say I am more slummy mummy than yummy mummy but I live in hope of my fairy godmother casting her wand! I am also a sister, a daughter, a godmother, an auntie, a wife and hopefully a good friend! Having spent more time lately reading blogs than studying current affairs or indulging in "chick lit" I thought I'd give it a go so here I am! I have been married to Mr D for 12 years now and we have been together since I was 14!!! Miss D came along in 2009 and life changed for the better from that day. I work a 4 day week as a tutor in Childcare and Education (sounds far posher than it is!) and spend the other 3 days being the best mummy I can be to my adorable daughter. I *LOVE* shopping, chatting, card making, scrapbooking, cooking and reading. I want to share some of the random thoughts that I have and the craziness of my life with you. I hope you enjoy what you read and if you don't........well I gave it a go!!!

Monday 8 August 2011

High days and Holidays

And reeeeeeeeeeelllllllllllllllllllllaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx!

Finally the summer is here and I can relax a little bit lot and enjoy spending time with my family without the stresses of work.

I am fortunate that I can take 4 whole weeks off over the summer and have holiday throughout the rest of the year because of the job I do.  I am looking forward to just being mummy and doing things for me!

I have been off for 4 days so far and we have managed lunch out with the MIL, A cinema trip, shopping, chilling and picnicing!!

You will have to wait for the rest of my adventures but hopefully they will feature some charity shopping as this has been a bit lax of late!

Tuesday 19 July 2011

What's in the Bag?

A think I thought today was what on earth is in my Handbag.

As I lifted it up to go to work today it seemed infeasibly heavy considering it only has essentials  my life in it!

Well here goes the contents of a my handbag were as follows:

Purse
Staff Pass
Phone
House Keys
Lip Balm
Make up bag
Note book
5 Pens
6 Receipts
2 bills
painkillers
Ipod
Head phones
Shopping list
3 fruit chewy bars
packet of raisins (contents scattered over bag)
Nappy
hand cream
half packet extra strong mints
hand wipes
lady items!!!!
tissues
Sunglasses
A flyer from a restaurant

I am a bit worried that this is what I consider to be essentials and feel I need to sort this out! Then again am I normal and everyone carries this much crap around?

What do you carry in your bag? Do Share!!!

Monday 11 July 2011

Where is it all going wrong?

A think I thought today was what is happening in the world?

I spend a lot of time in my job with young people and of late have been wondering what is happening to the youth of today. Ok so now I sound like an old granny but really some of the things I witness are truly shocking. Having spoken to friends and colleagues who also teach I know I am not alone in wondering this. When I started my job I thought delivering a vocational course would mean the people I came across wanted to learn, they had chosen a vocation and this course was their route to doing a job they care about and have a passion for. On reflection I think I was wrong!

Many people think that the subject I teach is an easy option; they won’t have to do much. WRONG! There is a whole load of theory alongside the practical.  Trying to explain why they have to understand the theory and what it has to do with the job they want to do is a whole other job in itself.

Then there is the issue of the “youth of today”.   Aggression, swearing, violence, rudeness, poor attitude and non attendance are all daily challenges in the classroom that teachers face.  This has recently been highlighted by stories in the press. Violence in schools doubles

Mobile phones are the bane of my life constant buzzing and vibrating disrupts every  teaching session.  I am all for embracing technology in the classroom, being able to access the internet on a phone is fantastic  -  research can be done from the classroom and you don’t lose students in the “library” but the disruption of calls and texts, facebook, pinging,  BB ing etc etc is just frustrating.

I believe this behaviour is a sad reflection of the society in which we now live.  You are not able to correct someone’s behaviour without fear of recrimination – students in classes are now more aware of their rights (which is not a bad thing) and they use this knowledge to their advantage.  There are no real consequences for their actions.  The threat of a disciplinary is not enough; they need real penalties for unacceptable behaviour.  I am all for students having rights but teachers have them too!

I hasten to add that this kind of behaviour is not from the majority of young people but it is disruptive and a lot of time is lost fire fighting or managing these people. I love my job, I love the subject I teach, I enjoy the feeling of helping someone achieve their goals and I love the end of year when all the hard work from everyone comes to fruition but when I went to college I went to learn. I didn’t dare answer back and unconditionally respected those who taught me. I just wonder what has happened to change the attitudes of people so much.  

What can be done? Answers on a postcard please!  

Sunday 10 July 2011

Thoroughly modern Millie - not me

A think I thought today was that I appear to be ageing faster than I should be.

Having reached the end of the stressful time at work, I have found myself with some spare time for me. I love nothing better than sitting with a cup of tea and a magazine for a flick through at the latest celeb gossip.  However something very strange has happened instead of aforementioned celeb mag I found myself selecting woman and home and good housekeeping!!!!

What is going on?????????

There is nothing fundamentally wrong with either of these fine publications but they conjure up a certain image in my head of a good 50's housewife getting tips on cleaning!


I know I am not a young flibbertigibbet any more and that I should have better things to do other than read about other peoples lives but we all love a bit of spying don't we! Even those who say they have no time for it secretly like to hear all about the latest footballer scandal or who is dating who!

Actually I was pleasantly surprised to find a good mix of recipes, articles, fashion, advice and fiction in both and am sure they will end up in my basket again however I may have to add a sneaky copy of OK or Heat into the  mix too (just to keep up with the youngsters!)

Saturday 2 July 2011

Anyone for tart?

A think I thought today was that it had been a while so I should get my backside into gear and write another blog.

So onto the tart!

These Lemon Tarts are the easiest thing to make and so simple it is unbelievable. Being a do everything as quickly as possible kind of person they suit me down to the ground.

You need:

3 lemons (juice and zest)
1 Lime (juice and zest)
1/2 Jar of good quality lemon curd
1 tub cream cheese
1 tin condensed milk
large pot clotted cream (or 2 small ones)
16 ready made sweet pastry cases

Mix the cheese, milk and cream together then add all other ingredients and hey presto Lemon Mousse! spoon into cases - chill and enjoy!

You can sprinkle sherbert over to serve which gives extra zing!

That my friends is all!


Saturday 4 June 2011

Blistering hell!

A think I thought today was that exercise is bad for you!

I don’t care what the so called experts say they are obviously robots not humans!

Having been out for a run jog walk with Mrs J last night my feet started to rub a little in my well worn running shoes.  The pain wasn’t too bad and certainly not enough to make me stop but by the time I got home these babies had appeared!



One on each ankle just under the bone!

OUCH!

Mr D says I need to burst them and cover them but I think this could cause a tsunami in MK which really is not an option and to be honest I am a little lot scared in case it hurts! Mrs W could only laugh at my affliction today likening them to the balloon like blister Mrs G had from running a marathon. Mrs W also suggested flying to Ethiopia and bursting them from a plane overhead to help with their water problems! (A serious issue I know but the comment was funny!)

Miss D is also finding them a great source of amusement and keeps poking them saying “mummy’s poorly feet!”  Honestly is there no sympathy in this house?

Frankly one is not amused.......they hurt!  I am not sure how I will get my feet into my work shoes on Monday or indeed how I will get them back into my runners for Monday nights session. Maybe I could contact Oasics and ask if they could custom make me some shoes to accommodate the growth????? 

Wednesday 25 May 2011

The memories!!!

A think I thought today was all about memories that music can evoke!

This is not an original thought for me (or for anyone I guess) and I am not going to ramble on as I already have another post about this planned! BUT I had to share these gems with you.

Thanks to Chris and crew on radio 2 this morning I was reminded of this song from my youth


A classic I believe and I wholeheartedly sang along!!

This led me to remembering another 80's classic and the embarrassment of getting up in front of the whole school and performing it with Mrs T! Scarf and all ...............  hope it makes you smile too!